I guess, sometimes, you have to take the highs with the lows, the good with the bad and the fresh with the expired (scratch that last one-- never take the expired). I've got so many things I feel like I am holding back on right now. So many ideas that I want to explore, so many corners I'd like to turn-- even if it's only to see what is there, and then come right back.
Well what's holding you back, Mark? I have been burned before by simply following my heart and doing what I think is right. Too many times. I'm learning from my mistakes, at least on some level, and hope to write the next chapter of my life in pencil, rather than ink. I can always type it out once it looks the way I want it to.
I heard a very interesting point of view on the topic of "looking to the future" on the
Stephen A. Smith show on ESPN Radio a couple weeks ago which I have been thinking a lot about. The person being interviewed was Steve
Harvey, and they were talking about passion and goals. Here is my attempt at summarizing his thoughts on the subject.
A lot of people, when they are younger, are told: Find something you are passionate about and do it. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't do something or be somebody-- that you're not good enough, not tall enough, not smart enough, not pretty enough-- and so on and so forth. Why tell them that? That's not how the real world works. Why not rework the whole concept to something like: Find something you're gifted at and develop it. Too many people are living in a world of disappointment because they thought their passion and hard work alone would eventually lead to success. It might! IF you're talented in that field to begin with. IF you have the means to be successful once you get there. Getting there isn't the hardest part. Not that it's easy-- because it's not. But once you're there-- it gets harder. Why lead kids to believe they can do anything they put their mind to? We should be telling them to find something that they are good at, and to put their minds to that. To develop the gifts they have. To be who they are. To try to be the very best they can be at what they're good at. Not to say that dreaming big or trying new things is wrong, because it's not. This isn't about limiting what you do for enjoyment-- as a hobby or in your free-time. By all means, try to be happy and have fun. Try everything. Don't limit yourself. But when it comes to your future, be smart about it. Okay, I know that was long winded-- and, again, that was just my understanding of what he was saying. Talk about a great "modern issues" style topic. Before I give my thoughts and response, I am really interested in hearing what you guys think. I have been thinking about this a lot and would really be interested to see some opinions.
On the North side,
Mark